Tuesday, May 26, 2015

THE SUM OF SMALL STEPS


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Since I was a little girl, my parents taught me that Rome was not built in one day. I have always believed that success is the sum of small steps.  It has never been easy to maintain or improve my blog while working a full time engineering job. But hey, after two years of writing Shall We Sasa, I’m still doing it and am even more passionate about it. I have made so much progress with these mindful small steps and I would love to share some of the tips/beliefs that have helped me achieve my everyday ambitions with you girls.

Believe It Will Happen

Two years ago when I started Shall We Sasa, I was a newbie and I had no idea about so many things when it came to blogging. The only thing I knew was what I was trying to achieve, to bring more useful and helpful information to you girls. If you write down your goal on a piece of paper, read it out loud every morning before you start working and every night before you go to sleep, the chance that it happens is much higher. I also read somewhere that people who visualize their successes on a regular basis tend to be more motivated to reach their goal. In addition, it’s better to have a short term milestone and a more specific goal with the ultimate one coming after the sum of small steps. 

Actions Speak Louder

It’s never enough if you just visualize or read your goal everyday. You have to put everything into action so that those who believe in you can help you. Often my full time job is very demanding. If I had said to myself that I’m too exhausted from work every day and I waited for tomorrow, Shall We Sasa would have never happened.

Never Give Up

Because success doesn’t happen in one day, a lot of people give up along the way. I work everyday on the small steps and I repeat, repeat and repeat. Things might not move as fast as you expect, but as long as you are moving in the right direction, you should never give up. 

Discipline

Sometimes I work from home. When I do, I try to change into my work outfit as if I’m going out to work. I also try to stay away from distractions like snacks and TV at home. I clean up my desk and only put the things that I need on my desk like in the first picture: laptop, notebook, pens, accessories for me to stay inspired as well as smartwater. Cleaning my desk helps me clear my mind. Good water like smartwater keeps me hydrated throughout the day.  

Sometimes I’m working on a post for the next day on the weekend and my friends call me to hang out. Who wouldn’t want to go out with friends on the weekend to just enjoy life and have a great time? But if I have a post due the next day, I choose to stay home to finish the post. It’s not easy, but I tell myself that so many of you are waiting for the new post and the tidbits of information I really love sharing with you girls in a timely fashion.

Stay Positive

It may sound cliché, but having a positive attitude is a major key to achieving success. In good times and bad times, if you have a positive attitude toward everything in life, you are already one step ahead of so many others. One of the things that has really helped me to stay positive is exercise on a regular basis. I exercise every other day, at least three times a week. I especially like running, lots of cardio. Exercise and sweating make me so happy and keep me thinking positively. It gives me the energy every day to go further on my journey.

I hope this has been informative and helpful to you, loves! How do you achieve your everyday ambitions step by step? :) XO


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Sunday, May 24, 2015

DATE NIGHT FORMULA

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lulus stripe crop top, shop the mint red skater skirt, giuseppe zanotti butterfly sandals, Kendra scott rachel double ring, baublebar peal ring, baublebar statement earrings, ted baker clutch,fashion blog, NY fashion blog, datenight outfit ideas, summer date night outfit
lulus stripe crop top, shop the mint red skater skirt, giuseppe zanotti butterfly sandals, Kendra scott rachel double ring, baublebar peal ring, baublebar statement earrings, ted baker clutch,fashion blog, NY fashion blog, datenight outfit ideas, summer date night outfit
lulus stripe crop top, shop the mint red skater skirt, giuseppe zanotti butterfly sandals, Kendra scott rachel double ring, baublebar peal ring, baublebar statement earrings, ted baker clutch,fashion blog, NY fashion blog, datenight outfit ideas, summer date night outfit
lulus stripe crop top, shop the mint red skater skirt, giuseppe zanotti butterfly sandals, Kendra scott rachel double ring, baublebar peal ring, baublebar statement earrings, ted baker clutch,fashion blog, NY fashion blog, datenight outfit ideas, summer date night outfit

Outfit Details

Top: Lulus (similar here)
Skirt: Shop the Mint (also love this, this and this one)
Heels: Giuseppe Zanotti(currently on sale)
Clutch: Ted Baker (similar here)
Earrings: BaubleBar (also love this one)

Wearing stripes with red is one of my favorite date night outfit ideas. The main idea is to have the combo of stripes and red pieces, but because there are so many different types of stripe tops and red skirts, the possibilities of this chic combo are endless. For example, the Midi skirt could also go with a crop stripe top extremely well. This is an easy and chic combo you girls have to try this summer. What kind of stripe and red combo would you wear this summer?

I'm back to work today and working on something for work and Shall We Sasa. For those of you who are working today like me, don't feel too bad, you are not the only one :P Mr. SF and I are having a mini get-away and going to a friend's wedding this weekend. I can't wait to share more with you girls. Most of the sales I’ve mentioned to you girls end tonight like BaubleBar, ASOS and J. Crew. The Nordstrom sale will run for a few more days, but definitely don't forget to take advantage of it today and check out my picks here and here :) Have an amazing Memorial Day and I will talk to you girls real soon! XO

Shop the Outfit


Saturday, May 23, 2015

INSTAGRAM WITH SASA

Chanel No5, chanel no 5 in a new light exhibit in New York, nyc, chanel in a new light, NYN5, fashion blog, flowers

From where i stand, neon , fashion blog, kate spade heels, 7fam boyfriend jeans, tory burch bag, fashion blog

valentino lock bag, bauble bar acid tassel drop earrings, tassel earrings, fashion blog

i have a thing with floors, slip on, vans, fashion blog, nyc

chloe drew bag, fashion blog, bag of the day

fashion blog, mark cross bag, asos black box bag, black slides, black slippers, coffee, magazine, fashion blog

Happy Sunday, loves! Hope you guys are enjoying your long weekend. Don't forget to check out the sales for Memorial Day weekend here! Talk to you soon:) XO